Dating BEDA

So when I dated my first boyfriend a little while back I learned people have some very strong feelings on the subject of dating in school. Like very strong. Some people think its stupid to date young, some think it's stupid not to. So I figured why not make that my next topic sense I was recently asked out again. (Said No, but not the point)

One, I think that not dating at all in high school is stupid. Before you start dating you don't know anything about how relationships work. I learned from my first one that you have to talk and trust each other in reality as well as theory. Also have things in common. When I grow up I'd like to have a family and I want kids before I'm 30. So starting real dating with a good deal of what is good and what isn't is a good idea. 

Two, I don't think you need to be constantly dating. There are other parts of the experience. Friends, grades, clubs, etc matter as well. I think taking time to think about the past is important and you shouldn't feel the need to always be with someone. 

Three, high school relationships are practice for real life. Maybe 1-2 people who date in high school will stay together. Yes you should try to do things right, but you should also know that if it doesn't work out that's fine and normal. You're probably not gonna marry your high school sweetheart. Sorry. 

Four, most high school relationships are stupid. You've been together for 2 months. You're barely infatuated, let alone in love. Just because you go on a date doesn't make your boyfriend and girlfriend. It means you're dating. You don't have to celebrate Anniversaries every week, or month. These things don't make sense to adults because they're silly. 

Five, don't do stupid things. For people who've dated multiple people a good thing to think is this. Think of your worst ex that you had a decent relationship with. Would you regret having done what you're about to do with them? For example, if you're about to do something for the first time, like a first kiss or losing your virginity, think about an ex. Had your first kiss/lost virginity been with them how would you feel? If it is a lot of regret then don't do it. If its gonna matter to you, then be careful who you do it with. Also just don't have sex unless you have $10,000. You'll need it if you get pregnant which you always can. 

I think the most important part is this. Remember that it'll all be okay. It depends on the person that you are and you'll know if it's right. Not every relationship is worth it and that's okay. One day if it's supposed to happen for you it will. 

May life be as awesome as you are and DFTBA!