Visible Change

So my friend broke up with the crazy bitch girlfriend. Finally. I've been talking to him all weekend, and holy crap.  I knew he'd changed while he was dating her. I consciously knew it. But wow. He's still not quite himself, cause he's upset. But he's starting to sound like the guy I became friends with. I can finally remember why I was fighting so hard for this relationship. When he isn't with a girl he's a great guy. He's sweet and polite and respectful. He treats me like I'm special. It is hard to explain how much I missed having him in my life.  I hate how hurt he is though. I would just like to say straight up that cheating and lying are wrong. If you aren't into someone say no. Break up. Don't lie or cheat or try to hold onto nothing. It's wrong and so unfair to them. In my version of hell you have a special place. More on that in a later post.  The other thing I have to say is to listen to your friends. If they all tell you something is wrong with a person then there probably is. If they all tell you you are changing in a bad way or whatever. Listen to them. These people want what is best for you always and so you need to treat them well and not ignore them.  This a rant, sorry. Ill try to be better tomorrow. May life be as awesome as you are and DFTBA!!!!!!